Do we need role models for our kids?

  In this era where everybody is in a tearing rush, quality parenting is getting extremely difficult. Every parent wants to bring up their kids in a proper direction but mostly appears unsuccessful. So how can we succeed in training our kids effectively? 

Should we present ourselves as a role model for our kids? It looks relatively easy and that's how we don't need to give them example of successful personalities. We just need to be useful in every aspect of life for our kids. Whatever we want to teach them, we just need to present ourselves accordingly; our actions can teach them what we want them to do and to be but is it as easy as it seems? 

A good brought up of your kids depends on your good qualities, so first, before going to make your child, you should analyze yourself. I can give you so many points and tips for your child upbringing, but there is only one formula if you apply in your life, you can get what you want to your child. 

So first bring change in yourself your kids follow your footsteps. 

New year is starting this will be your new year resolution. Let's make our coming days better and happier for our own and for everyone.

Happy New Year 

How to bring positivity in life

 Disappointment and positivity 

Both state of mind differ from each other completely. Both conditions exist in every person's life

Today we try to know how to overcome our disappointed state of mind and walk towards positivity

I know it's simple to advise someone to be positive but to act upon entirely tough but even then, it is possible.

Where positive thoughts come from?

Positivity comes from your inside; you have to lead your thoughts to a right, peaceful and calm state of mind no matter you are ignored or deprived of anything, no matter how hard it is to be positive, you just have to go out of these conditions by your efforts.  

It's all about the inner power that can be calm or cruel for you and others as well. 

It often happens in everyone's life when we get depressed and heartbroken because of our circumstances or our loved ones. We think that the person whom we love so much not getting us this situation makes us lonely and sad. This is the time we need to focus on that condition, maybe he is getting me as I'm thinking about him. 

The solution to getting out of this situation we need to talk and listen to each other. If you are worried about your circumstances or someone taking you wrong, and both conditions are disappointing to live a happy life, you just need to talk. If you allow to speak and ready to listen, you can survive in your hard times, but this should happen to both parties. 

Listening is beautiful

 In life, most of our complications we have to face just because of our own. In many disputes we don't want to listen to the other person we think ourselves right even we don't give a chance to say someone to deliver his point of view. I'm not saying that you must be wrong you can be right certainly but there is no harm to listen to the other one. 

To me, it's easy to solve the issue by our listening ability. 

It is said that ”talk less and listen more” if we do this, our many problems can be vanished by itself.

So for a sustained relationship, give your friends your loved ones a chance to clear themselves.

life is too short to love and happiness. Don't waste it. Make it easy by giving ease to others. 

Action speaks rather than words

 Action speaks rather than words.”

Said Abraham Lincoln 

I have read this phrase once somewhere at that time; I didn't get the meaning 

of this, but by the time, I have learned about it very well.

If you say to your loved ones that I love you in your whole life, but you didn't act accordingly so, your words are useless to him. 

If someone is important to you, you have to show him by caring and following him. You have to prove that he exists in your life entirely.

Most of us don't think about the seriousness of this consequence and spoil their lives. 

If someone is like a breath to you and you can't live without him so make him acknowledge by your actions.

Otherwise, you get stuck and lose your lifeline. 

Sometimes it also happens that we do love and want him to be with us, but we don't understand his feelings his expectations toward us. It doesn't happen intentionally, but it happens then we can't find the way to make him realize that he possesses an essential position in our life 

This is a challenging period in our lives.

Whether we apologize to him, but our apology can't be accepted.

Whether we cry, we beg to him, but all remain useless.

Then what should we do?

We should say sorry and wait for him patiently he must come to you cause it can't be possible that you love someone and your love doesn't affect him.

It's not even possible that your real affection can't be appreciated. 

So be careful whatever you say just to prove by your action. 

Agree or not

 If you are forced to do something that you are not interested in, what do you do?

It is widespread in the daily lives that we have to do so many things that, if we are asked, we never ready to do, but we are compelled.

In this situation, what should we do?

Few questions are raising in your mind for sure, but no one knows what the best possible solution is.

According to my study, if a person has to live with no choice, He or She can live. A better life, contrary to those who live their lives with their own.

I'm sure you must be thinking about what I'm talking about but it's a fact. 

If you don't believe you can experience. 

Everybody has his perceptions of living. Sometimes what we are thinking about anything if we see from someone else point of view it must be different and could be more useful and better. 

So there's no harm to use someone else idea. You can see this situation in every relationship. Instead, you feel inferior; you can perform your responsibility with all your will and effort. 

In the end, if you can't live your life willingly and you have no choice for yourself, leave yourself with time. Things get perfect. Time has to pass, so let it gives with all your heart.

What do we need the most?

What do we Need the most?

The words mentioned above are not only a question but a top line in a motivational direction also.

To achieve success in the world, first of all, we need to specify our living direction. When it is decided, we can focus on our efforts, and our actions lead us to our success. 

So don't live without purpose. Don't get an education without setting your goal. You need to know the reason for your existence. Everyone is here for his part to perform. Try to be Good for others.

The most important thing is that be a good human than anything else. This is extremely needed by any society. 

Online Class and Parents

 Online Classes are getting complicated day by day. As we can observe in our surroundings that parents are worried and irritated about their kid's online classes but every parent wants their kids to be participated in learning process. In fact only parents can make this online learning process useful. Teachers are doing their best but besides teachers parents should play their role effectively as well.

How do parents make their kid's online classes more attrective and functional. Here are few tips somehow these tips can make this process easy.

* Before taking online class make your child feel that its not going to be something strange and weired, prepare them to learn in a exciting way.

*Parents should sit with their child particularly with primary class's students so that they can feel that if they get stuck somewhere their parents will help them, and gradually leave them taking class with their own but keep monitoring. 

*Some children feel hesitation and do not respond their teacher during normal school classes too,I think online class is a golden opportunity for parents that they can overcome their children's weakness and improve their skills by encouraging them to take a part.

*Keep in touch with your children's teacher and let them know about their discussions with teacher too.

. There can be more openions and tips concerning. As we all are going through this tough time, parents and teachers can make a healthy society with the help of eachother. Do not take this online learning process as a burden. If parents show their disinterest so how can their kids take advantages.Show your constructive behaviour. Your child is in your hand.

A Worth Living Life

Don’t spoil your life, make it worth living by doing good things not only for yourself but for others too.

How do we know other’s lives hurdles? It seems quite impossible.

To me It’s so easy, whatever you think is good for you just think for others in a same way.we never want to harm ourselves, we always like ease in our lives, just like that we should try to think and do for other people.

This habit will make your life easy and peaceful. It can also make you feel satisfied and happy.

People will love and respect you and this is the true meaning of a worth living life.

Let’s try to make it. 

Success and Satisfaction

Successful or Satisfied

What do you want to be?

I have read somewhere that a satisfied life is better than a successful life.
First of all we need to understand what is Success? meaning of success can be different according to every individual. Someone thinks Success is about being rich, some people say Success means having power and authority of doing what they want but one question pricks me that being rich and powerful is enough for a person? cause i have seen many people having luxurious life but thay are mostly found sad and complaining.
In fact Satisfaction is more important and precious than success. Satisfaction is a feeling that comes with Tawakkul (Trust in Allah), its an inner peace which keeps you happy and leads you towards making people happy.

Sketches by my daughter Ayesha Toor

My daughter's  painting